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Happy Butch Appreciation Day.

To butches of all ages : I wish you love and happiness. But most of all hope. Hope for a happy future and a life of adventure.

really funny that every website is in an arms race to make itself as bad as possible and immediately someone makes a firefox extension to fix it

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avg day on late Web 2.0

I've been having a lot of feelings about the downfall of quality lately.

I ordered a pair of Dickies pants because pants are hard and workwear is usually reliable. When they arrived they were the scratchiest, most papery material--I can't actually call it fabric in good faith--and fit a full three sizes too small. A week later I found the same pair in a thrift store, dated 2017. These are actual pants. They fit, they're not made of asbestos. They're only separated by time.

There's no wood used in interior design unless it's a custom build. I have a set of wealthy relatives who live in a condo. The downpayment for it was likely more money than I will see in my lifetime. The floors and the cabinets are all still laminate. I know I will never see real wood in a building constructed after 2000. Every "apartment hack" I see online has this very conspicuous, flat appearance because of all the paint and contact paper required to make these builds look personal in any way. The only natural materials are in the furnishings.

I've been harping on this for years, but everything is shit, nothing is designed to work, and "growth" and "profit" are just euphemisms for cutting corners until things are unworkable.

Its butch appreciation day appreciate ur local butch <3

I wasnt kidding btw

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THIS POST INCLUDES TRANSFEM BUTCHES AND WAS MADE BY A TRANSMASC BUTCH LESBIAN. TERF LOSERS FUCK OFF

able bodied allies of disabled people when your disability genuinely has no secret upside and makes you useless to a late stage capitalist society

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Reminder

The Days of Awe, also known as the High Holidays are quickly approaching.

This means be aware & don’t schedule important events, tests, meetings, etc, when your Jewish community members cannot be in attendance in order to observe them.

Rosh Hashanah

Begins sunset of Friday, September 15, 2023

Ends nightfall of Sunday, September 17, 2023

Yom Kippur

Begins sunset of Sunday, September 24, 2023

Ends nightfall of Monday, September 25, 2023

For most Christians in the US, most of your holidays are bank holidays & you get paid double to work, if you so choose. Our High Holy Days forbid work for us. 

Don’t force your Jewish colleagues, friends, family, and community members to have to lose out because you have the privilege not to.

i hate being neurotic bc why does my stomach feel like ouroborosing itself

augh! anyway sorry about that lol

me: i’ve really had stuff to do for the past few days and i haven’t been able to do it because the kitten needs either 24/7 surveillance or (if lucky) is asleep safe in the bathroom/(if unlucky) is screaming to the point of unbearability in the bathroom.

m*m: okay well i had to do a facial as part of a duo package for an old guy and someone who is obviously a sugar baby :/ so its been hard for me too

#... #im so tired lol. ugh #no bc no i Love having no help with any of my shit and getting shat on for saying that i wish i had any amt of help w it #my room has been uhh. disgusting lol but i havent had the energy to clean it And do everything else i have to do so like. #ive just like dealt with it. but i have a zoom meeting w a counselor tmr so i Have to clean it and get a shower beforehand #im already bartering with myself on like what would actually be visible from the camera lol #like literally heres the timeline. came home around about 5. talked my ear off then went outside and smoked for at least 20min #came in and ate food. went out and smoked again. gave theo a whole bottle even though hes already had some and too much makes him ill #fed the dog. just now got in the bath. like. :/ #and what kills me is multiple times shes gone to work in the morning w/o feeding him and says she “didnt have time” and woke up late #but i explicitly asked her to wake me up if im not already awake bc since im off my meds i can oversleep accidentally and then she gets mad #if i feed him too late. it was more understandable when he was solely a bottle baby bc that is more time consuming-like at shortest 20min #but hes on wet food w supplemental formula so he doesnt dehydrate. how fucking hard is it to dump a little serving into a tupperware. #and i know shes done that on thursdays which is so funny bc i was up early today and she got up at 7 and went to work at like 10. cmon now #and also about my room. like ive been feeling Worse than usual which probably isnt being helped by the sentient colonies in a few mugs. #ill be getting an emancipation proclamation from them soon no doubt. jokes aside like i leave them in here bc if i go leave them to soak in #the sink-even though thats arguably better for me healthwise and im the one whos supposed to do the dishes anyway-ill get yelled at. #so i just leave them in my room until i have the energy to deal with them. shes done dishes and didnt ask if i had any which i honestly can #and wont complain bc they are technically my thing to do. but like. if i vacuumed which is her thing i wouldnt like... #Avoid her room bc its not fair?? and when i do dishes Even if they wont all fit in the dishwasher i still go get them all. #then i usually just leave the extra to either soak or air dry on a towel (bc these dishes are practically spotless b4 dishwasher-thats for #disinfecting w the boiling water & heat). idk on one hand i feel like its not that big a deal to deal w my room If shed actually watch theo #but on the other hand if someone i knew was dealing w shit like this id help them bc no one wants to live like this. #and i have btw im not just talking out of my ass lol. truly it was a tag team effort for me and L to get through spring 2022 semester #final thing-i know its my neurosis making this so much Worse too bc if i'd just buck up and accept that its a million times easier to just #dump all the trash in my room then i could truly clean up most if not all tonight. but noo ocd says im actually terrible and personally #ruining the planet if i dont find a way to recycle these cans (bc recycling doesnt come to our street/neighborhood anymore). #also the brown recluses. honestly the part i miss most about NY is the literal geographic absence of brown recluses. they arent there #you know where they are? in my room. :P love that for me (i have got to get some peppermint spray)
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